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It's true that these are apples and oranges comparisons.
We as retail traders don't benchmark ourselves against the indexes (although we should know what kind of average vs just holding an index or cash for that matter we are achieving)
The institutional world IS based on the benchmarks such as the S&P or Bonds or different asset classes and/or hedges against inflation.
These are again not even comparable.
They work on the portfolio level and asset allocation can have as much of an impact or more than the individual securities they invest in.
They are looking for a return comensurate with the risk to achieve a desired return.
We are NOT talking only about returns we are talking RISK ADJUSTED RETURNS and the return they can achieve with the smallest amount of risk to the portfolio to again achieve a certain level of return.
Lastly %10 a year on your money is a weird way to say this as it's usually an average. Some years are better some are worse.
Now there are alot of blanket statements and generalizations in there but I think the point was made.
And if course the goal we all want is great RISK ADJUSTED RETURNS. At least as retail traders we have agility on our side!
Saw this thread pop up in my emails the other day. Really didn't want to reply, but thought very long and hard about it, and finally.... I realised I do want to say something.
I have been trading for 13 years.
All I can tell you is the money isn't even the tip of the iceberg. In fact it doesn't really matter at all. The structure of the things you wrote, the things you said and the way you said them tells me where you are in your journey - you have a very long hard road ahead of you, and I think taking some time to reflect on it would be a good use of your time.
You're at a fork right now and if you truly want trading to be your path then I can only tell you that it will cost you more than money. Much much more.
In many ways you're lucky because it's not too late to seal it off and go do something else instead.
Only you can decide.
Couple of truisms I've picked up along the way that I can offer you:
1. No one gives a shit when you lose money and no one applauds when you win. (Human beings don't like that much, we aren't programmed for it)
2. Whatever you are not changing, you are choosing. (Read that again)
Instead of comments from me, I will post a video from F.I.O contributor Lancelottrader aka Stranahan Trading.
I just came across this one today as I have been watching with interest his thread "The Crude Dude Oil Trading System". He has now switched over to the NQ.
Anyway, this is his first recorded video. It is excellent and he shared his own struggles and how he fixed them.
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Bob.
When one door closes, another opens.
-- Cervantes, Don Quixote
Kudos for being willing to expose your ego to the whiles of anonymous strangers. Luckily here they're a supportive group.
You've handed over $60k for some lessons.
Here a few of them:
1) You can make money doing this.
2) You have the power to wreck yourself and your account.
3) You're an emotional/egotistical trader.
Add others as you see fit.
Trading is a three-legged chair: Method, Mind and Money (Management). You need to focus on the latter 2 for a while. Van Tharp and Mark Douglas changed my life and trading; they will yours too.
Your wife should not be able to know whether or not you've had a good day. Besides, who needs that pressure?
I've done what you've described thrice. I'm a slow learner. Hopefully you're better than me?
The rules are basically be polite, friendly, helpful. We are adults, many of whom do use colorful language. Especially in stressful times, which trading can bring forward...
But of course, if someone goes overboard then it's not welcome.
If your are offended by four letter words, your can also use the ignore feature.
I don't know about all the features on the site. Does the ignore feature filter the foul language before it is read? I am an adult , going on 70 and still find it offensive. Maybe I will grow up sometime soon.