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Bob Doyle -What is the law of attraction and how we can use it in our lives ? - Bob Doyle
Bob speaks of his trouble in implementing the Law of Abundance
(he mentions re- moving blocks with EFT "tapping)
- for him he needed a quantum physics explanation to understand it.
- his underlying belief system
"if you don't believe you deserve money, abundance you are pushing it away"
"There is no getting around releasing the resistance"
-"EFT is a huge one for me."
I feel there is a way. (As an aside one needs to be very careful of word selection, that is framing. So framing the challenge as a "virtually an impossible task." , "like a 10 tonne weigh" can lend power to the challenge versus the solution).
So
" I believe there is a way."
That statement, that belief, itself opens the doorway of potential solution. So that is the very first step. Acknowledging it is possible and holding that belief.
The second part of the challenge is two-fold: negative (subconscious) programming and ego.
I have seen many people undone by their own ego. They get a little too prideful and this cuts out areas of thinking and endeavour essential to success. For example, Bob Proctor speaks of watching the same video over and over and over again for 30 days. So I am.
The video is simple and straightforward. So for many their ego says "I don't need to watch it over and over again. I get it, I got it the first time." I have a friend who accomplishing this - a 30 day exercise - is totally preclude by his ego. In his pride he can't see the obvious.
The other part is programming. We get programmed with negative beliefs -some of which are so deep we don't even know they are there. How are these changed? There are several ways and repetition is one. A faster and more effective way is self-hypnosis. This by-passes the doubting Thomas of the conscious mind.
I believe in the power of cultivating empowering beliefs.
(I was going to post 3 - but I feel that it may only divert the power of the thread.)
So I have posted 3 videos:
Bob Proctor - The Greatest Power in all of Creation
Bob Doyle - The law of attraction and how we can use it in our lives
Gary Craig - EFT the Basic recipe
To all who are interested:
Watching all three and giving one's feedback can move the thread forward.
Good point. Take the extreme example of addiction to alchohol.
The rate of people who are able to recover from alcoholism over the long term, for example ten years, is low. I'd bet it's much lower than the 7% recovery rate that is usually claimed by rehab. Because people revert eventually without consistent effort.
So how much effort is required to change a person enough to overcome an addiction within a program such as AA, for example? If you added up the total amount of time and attention, the personal cost is enormous. It requires total focus for a considerable period of time. Years.
"Persistence is very important. You should not give up unless you are forced to give up." -- Elon Musk
There’s an old folk song about a thirsty traveler who comes across a pump in the desert. An attached note explains that there’s a jar of water buried nearby to prime the pump. You’ve got to give before you get, the note says. It is up to the traveler to decide whether to drink the water from the jar or take a chance that the small amount of water invested will result in an unlimited supply of cold, clear water. So it is with going the extra mile. You’ve got to give before you get.
Over the last few months, I have been working with Steve Present on the subconscious mind. It was originally for my day trading issues but it has extended to all areas of my life. The process has taught me how closely linked one's discretionary trading is to their personal matters and issues.
If you're interested, take a look at the FIO post ...
Yes I did use Steve and my experience was very positive. As Rayzor mentioned it is very personal and you need to be
open to the process. The preparation was also quite introspectful and insightful. I would suggest giving him a call and …
The cost of the sessions has by no means been cheap, but for me, it has been very worthwhile. In the space of an hour each session, Steve does almost all of the work that I don't think any type or level of affirmations could ever produce the same results.
I thought that I would share this in case it is of assistance to anyone. When I read people's trading journals on FIO, and they describe their psychology issues with trading, I recognize I was once in that situation and that it can be resolved.
Min 26:11
You you would consciously observe some of the things you do in any given day, just consciously stop and watch your own behaviour, listen to your thoughts. you're going to find that many of the things you do are done through habit
4.Bob Proctor - The Greatest Power In All of Creation