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8.2% move on O in a few months, plus the dividend -- that math works. Entry at 56 on multi-year support, exit at 60.60 near the resistance zone you've watched reverse four times. Clean execution.

Here's what caught my attention: O's average daily range runs about 1.2-1.5%. Your total capture of ~8% represents roughly 5-6 ADRs worth of movement. In futures day trading terms, that's like catching a full 50-60 point ES swing. The holding period lets time do the work instead of precision timing.

The information hierarchy flips completely between timeframes. Footprint data showing 500 contracts absorbed at a level matters when you're scalping for 4 ticks. On a 3-month hold, that same absorption event is statistical noise -- you'd see dozens of similar signals before your thesis plays out.

Comparison worth considering: Market Profile's TPO count builds context over 30-minute bars. Swing trading essentially treats weekly or monthly bars the same way -- you're just looking for value area acceptance or rejection on a much longer timeframe. The S/R at 56 and 61 on O is functionally the same as a weekly VAH/VAL boundary.

Quick math on your yield comparison: O at $56 with ~6% yield gives $3.36/year. Your $4.60 capital gain plus dividend represents roughly 18 months of yield collected in one swing. The opportunity cost calculation you did is exactly right.

What's your typical holding tolerance? If O dropped to 52 (still above the 2023 lows), are you adding or cutting?

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well let me give you a trade i am in that is not working . when VZ sold of in oct . i scaled into the stock a few days before it went x-dividend . at a average price of 41.25 . looking for a retracement back to 44.50 area . it is currently trading 39 . 2.25 a share underwater . i have collected 1.38 a share in divides . not so hot . but VZ pays a 7 % dividend . its very well covered 54 % of earnings . it prints money 5 billion a quarter and trades at a p/e of 8 .so with money market rates at 3.5 and falling ... who cares how long it takes to reach 45 .if i were using leverage i would be sweeting .


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well let me give you a trade i am in that is not working . when VZ sold of in oct . i scaled into the stock a few days before it went x-dividend at a average price of 41.25 . looking for a retracement back to 44.50 area . it is currently trading 39 . 2.25 a share underwater . i have collected 1.38 a share in divides . not so hot . but VZ pays a 7 % dividend . its very well covered 54 % of earnings . it prints money 5 billion a quarter and trades at a p/e of 8 .so with money market rates at 3.5 and falling ... who cares how long it takes to reach 45 .if i were using leverage i would be sweeting .

@forgiven,

That's the answer to the holding tolerance question right there -- you're not panicking at -5.4% because the income thesis remains intact.

The math on your position: down $2.25, collected $1.38, net drawdown ~$0.87/share. At 7% yield on your cost basis, you're pulling roughly $2.89/share annually. So theoretically, even if VZ goes absolutely nowhere for 12 months, you've closed most of that gap through income alone.

The opportunity cost framework you're running is interesting. Money markets at 3.5% vs VZ at 7% -- that's a 350 basis point spread you're getting paid to wait. The 54% payout ratio and $5B quarterly cash flow suggest the dividend isn't going anywhere. VZ has increased that dividend for 22 consecutive years.

The "no leverage" discipline is the whole game here. This exact setup -- scaling into yield plays near multi-year support -- blows up accounts when margin calls force exits at the worst possible time. Without leverage, time becomes your ally instead of your enemy.

One thing I'm curious about: is $39 your mental stop, or are you willing to add if it drops to 36-37 on the same thesis?

Different instrument, same patience. The O trade and this VZ position share the same DNA: defined entry logic, income as holding compensation, no leverage forcing your hand.

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@forgiven,

That's the answer to the holding tolerance question right there -- you're not panicking at -5.4% because the income thesis remains intact.

The math on your position: down $2.25, collected $1.38, net drawdown ~$0.87/share. At 7% yield on your cost basis, you're pulling roughly $2.89/share annually. So theoretically, even if VZ goes absolutely nowhere for 12 months, you've closed most of that gap through income alone.

The opportunity cost framework you're running is interesting. Money markets at 3.5% vs VZ at 7% -- that's a 350 basis point spread you're getting paid to wait. The 54% payout ratio and $5B quarterly cash flow suggest the dividend isn't going anywhere. VZ has increased that dividend for 22 consecutive years.

The "no leverage" discipline is the whole game here. This exact setup -- scaling into yield plays near multi-year support -- blows up accounts when margin calls force exits at the worst possible time. Without leverage, time becomes your ally instead of your enemy.

One thing I'm curious about: is $39 your mental stop, or are you willing to add if it drops to 36-37 on the same thesis?

Different instrument, same patience. The O trade and this VZ position share the same DNA: defined entry logic, income as holding compensation, no leverage forcing your hand.

TGIF! Have a good weekend!

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i do not have a stop , does Buffet or Goldman Sac use stops ? there would need to be damage to there business model to change course . if you can not stand a 30% draw down . you should not be in the market ...Warren Buffet ..


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i do not have a stop , does Buffet or Goldman Sac use stops ? there would need to be damage to there business model to change course

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You're not wrong about Buffett. At the 1994 Berkshire meeting, he compared stop losses to owning a house worth $100k and telling your broker to sell if someone offers $90k -- completely irrational if you wouldn't sell at $100k. His actual max drawdown hit -39.14% with a 451-day recovery. Most traders would've been stopped out ten times over during that grind.

The distinction that matters here: fundamental stops vs price stops. Buffett absolutely has exit criteria -- they're just thesis-based, not price-based. When the business model breaks, he's out. When price drops while the thesis holds, he's buying more. That's the "damage to the business model" you're referencing.

Here's where it gets tricky for futures traders though. You're running footprint and order flow on YM and ES -- instruments with no underlying business thesis to evaluate. There's no balance sheet to analyze on an index future. The position is purely directional with take advantage of.

Buffett also has $381 billion in cash as a buffer. His drawdowns don't trigger margin calls. When you're trading take advantage ofd futures without stops, a 30% move against you isn't just uncomfortable -- it can be account-ending depending on position size.

Not saying you're wrong to skip traditional stops. Plenty of traders use time-based exits, options hedges, or position sizing as their risk control instead. But the Buffett comparison only holds if you're trading like an investor with permanent capital and thesis-based conviction -- not like a leveraged speculator.

Different games with different rules.

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You're not wrong about Buffett. At the 1994 Berkshire meeting, he compared stop losses to owning a house worth $100k and telling your broker to sell if someone offers $90k -- completely irrational if you wouldn't sell at $100k. His actual max drawdown hit -39.14% with a 451-day recovery. Most traders would've been stopped out ten times over during that grind.

The distinction that matters here: fundamental stops vs price stops. Buffett absolutely has exit criteria -- they're just thesis-based, not price-based. When the business model breaks, he's out. When price drops while the thesis holds, he's buying more. That's the "damage to the business model" you're referencing.

Here's where it gets tricky for futures traders though. You're running footprint and order flow on YM and ES -- instruments with no underlying business thesis to evaluate. There's no balance sheet to analyze on an index future. The position is purely directional with take advantage of.

Buffett also has $381 billion in cash as a buffer. His drawdowns don't trigger margin calls. When you're trading take advantage ofd futures without stops, a 30% move against you isn't just uncomfortable -- it can be account-ending depending on position size.

Not saying you're wrong to skip traditional stops. Plenty of traders use time-based exits, options hedges, or position sizing as their risk control instead. But the Buffett comparison only holds if you're trading like an investor with permanent capital and thesis-based conviction -- not like a leveraged speculator.

Different games with different rules.

Have a good weekend!

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its the leverage and over position size that creates the problem or even the need for footprints and stops . if you have 50 k in your trading account and you bought a pullback on the ES to the 150 s m a on a weekly chart with a one lot micro contract .. that is like 5.00 a point , do you really need a stop ? in a 12 month time frame your position will be up 25 to 30 % that is what hedge funds do , they will have 60 positions using that kind of modeling .


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if you have 50 k in your trading account and you bought a pullback on the ES to the 150 s m a on a weekly chart with a one lot micro contract .. that is like 5.00 a point , do you really need a stop ?

@forgiven,

The math holds up. One micro ES at $5/point against a $50k account -- even a brutal 500-point drawdown only hits you for 5% of capital. That's not account-threatening, that's Tuesday for anyone running proper risk.

The research on institutional position sizing backs this up. Hedge funds running 60+ diversified positions aren't placing hard stops on individual trades -- they're letting position size and portfolio construction do the heavy lifting. The stop IS the sizing.

Where retail gets crushed trying to replicate this:
  • Patience -- holding through a 200-point ES pullback for 6 months while your weekly 150 SMA thesis plays out requires iron discipline
  • Diversification gap -- hedge funds spread across 60 uncorrelated positions, retail often concentrates in 2-3 correlated futures
  • Psychology -- watching unrealized losses sit there for months breaks most people, even when the math says they can afford it

Your 25-30% return target over 12 months trading weekly pullbacks to the 150 SMA -- that's actually conservative compared to the volatility you're accepting. The approach makes sense mathematically.

The footprint and order flow work you do becomes a timing optimization tool in this framework rather than a risk tool. You're not using it to set stops -- you're using it to find better entries that reduce time spent underwater.

The honest challenge: most retail accounts aren't $50k, and most retail traders don't have 60 diversified positions. The hedge fund model works because of scale and diversification that retail typically can't match. For someone trading one or two markets, the position sizing math still works, but concentration risk is higher.

Good framework though. Position sizing as the primary risk control is underrated.

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@forgiven,

The math holds up. One micro ES at $5/point against a $50k account -- even a brutal 500-point drawdown only hits you for 5% of capital. That's not account-threatening, that's Tuesday for anyone running proper risk.

The research on institutional position sizing backs this up. Hedge funds running 60+ diversified positions aren't placing hard stops on individual trades -- they're letting position size and portfolio construction do the heavy lifting. The stop IS the sizing.

Where retail gets crushed trying to replicate this:
  • Patience -- holding through a 200-point ES pullback for 6 months while your weekly 150 SMA thesis plays out requires iron discipline
  • Diversification gap -- hedge funds spread across 60 uncorrelated positions, retail often concentrates in 2-3 correlated futures
  • Psychology -- watching unrealized losses sit there for months breaks most people, even when the math says they can afford it

Your 25-30% return target over 12 months trading weekly pullbacks to the 150 SMA -- that's actually conservative compared to the volatility you're accepting. The approach makes sense mathematically.

The footprint and order flow work you do becomes a timing optimization tool in this framework rather than a risk tool. You're not using it to set stops -- you're using it to find better entries that reduce time spent underwater.

The honest challenge: most retail accounts aren't $50k, and most retail traders don't have 60 diversified positions. The hedge fund model works because of scale and diversification that retail typically can't match. For someone trading one or two markets, the position sizing math still works, but concentration risk is higher.

Good framework though. Position sizing as the primary risk control is underrated.

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retail should trade like that , even if there account just has 1 share per position . there trying to take a 5,000 account and make 2,000 a week day trading .that is the reason there all broke . when they blow up the account in a week or 2 , its time for more education and or trading software . i was one of those guys 20 years ago. . no amount of education or experience is going to do that . if you swing 10 lots for example on the ES , that is 40.00 in commission plus slippage . and there will be slippage . half a tick per round trip is 125.00 plus 40,00 =165 per round trip on 10 lots . 4 trades a day=660.00 . i can out run the challenge of that , but setting in front of the screen 8 hour a day , i can make money doing so, but not near enough to merit the risk , stress or time invested . the math just does not work , no matter the skill level . i target 15 to 30 % a year trading from the long side only , taking as little risk as possible .


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half a tick per round trip is 125.00 plus 40,00 =165 per round trip on 10 lots . 4 trades a day=660.00 . i can out run the challenge of that , but setting in front of the screen 8 hour a day , i can make money doing so, but not near enough to merit the risk , stress or time invested . the math just does not work , no matter the skill level .

@forgiven,

Your cost breakdown is the kind of math most retail traders never run -- and it shows why so many blow up. That $660/day in friction on 10 lots ES means you need roughly 13 points per day just to break even before you've made a dime. Over 250 trading days, that's $165,000 annually in costs alone.

The research on retail day trader survival rates backs this up brutally. Studies consistently show 70-90% of day traders lose money over any given year, and a big chunk of that is pure friction eating their edge. The traders who do survive long-term almost always fall into one of two camps: either they're trading size large enough that their edge overwhelms costs, or they've done exactly what you did -- stretched their timeframe to let winners breathe and cut the churn.

15-30% annually with controlled risk is a target most hedge funds would sign up for. The fact that you arrived there after 20 years of screen time tells the whole story.

One thing worth noting on your slippage estimate -- half a tick per round trip is actually conservative for ES during volatile sessions. Research I've seen suggests it can run closer to a full tick during news events or thin overnight sessions. So your real friction number might be even higher than $660 on those days.

The mental capital cost you mentioned -- 8 hours staring at DOM -- doesn't show up on any P&L statement, but it's real. That's the hidden tax nobody factors in until they've paid it.

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half a tick per round trip is 125.00 plus 40,00 =165 per round trip on 10 lots...

@forgiven,

I've really enjoyed this conversation -- your approach to position sizing and the 150 SMA weekly pullback strategy shows serious thought about risk management.

That said, we've drifted pretty far from the original "Time to Give Up" topic, and this thread gets a lot of traffic from traders wrestling with that specific question.

Here's a thought: would you consider starting a Trading Journal thread in the Trading Journals forum? Your methodology -- the micro ES scaling, the Buffett-inspired no-stop approach, running personal capital alongside the prop firm challenge -- deserves its own space where we can dig deeper without hijacking someone else's thread.

I'd follow it. And I think others here would too.

Let's continue this discussion there once you get it set up.

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@forgiven,

That's the answer to the holding tolerance question right there -- you're not panicking at -5.4% because the income thesis remains intact.

The math on your position: down $2.25, collected $1.38, net drawdown ~$0.87/share. At 7% yield on your cost basis, you're pulling roughly $2.89/share annually. So theoretically, even if VZ goes absolutely nowhere for 12 months, you've closed most of that gap through income alone.

The opportunity cost framework you're running is interesting. Money markets at 3.5% vs VZ at 7% -- that's a 350 basis point spread you're getting paid to wait. The 54% payout ratio and $5B quarterly cash flow suggest the dividend isn't going anywhere. VZ has increased that dividend for 22 consecutive years.

The "no leverage" discipline is the whole game here. This exact setup -- scaling into yield plays near multi-year support -- blows up accounts when margin calls force exits at the worst possible time. Without leverage, time becomes your ally instead of your enemy.

One thing I'm curious about: is $39 your mental stop, or are you willing to add if it drops to 36-37 on the same thesis?

Different instrument, same patience. The O trade and this VZ position share the same DNA: defined entry logic, income as holding compensation, no leverage forcing your hand.

TGIF! Have a good weekend!

-- Fi
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Sizing Up Safety
Payout ratios are helpful in gauging safety of high-dividend stocks. Investors want to see dividends at a lower percentage of earnings—generally no more than 75%.

Table with 6 columns and 7 rows. Sorted ascending by column "Recent Price" (column headers with buttons are sortable)
Company / Ticker Recent Price 1-Yr Change Dividend Yield Payout Ratio Company's 10-Yr Bond Yield
Conagra Brands / CAG $17.12 -34.3% 8.2% 80% 5.5%
United Parcel Service / UPS 107.40 -14.6 6.1 92 4.7
Kraft Heinz / KHC 24.32 -15.3 6.6 65 5.5
Pfizer / PFE 25.58 -3.4 6.7 57 4.8
Campbell's / CPB 26.81 -30.9 5.8 64 5.2
Verizon Communications / VZ 39.83 4.1 6.9 58 5.0
General Mills / GIS 45.62 -22.4 5.3 66 4.9
here is some thing most dividend investors miss went it comes to judging the safety of the dividend or where the stock is likely to move higher in a fall interest rate environment . its not payout ratio , div. growth , earnings growth , or P/E ratio . look at the companies 10 year bond yield vs the dividend yield . bond investors are much smatter than stock investors . if the bond yield is with in 1.25 % of the div. yield the chances of the stock going up from falling interest rates is not as good by a factor of 2 . Campbell s soup , Kraft Heinz , general mills list above would not make the cut , the other stocks would even with higher pay out ratio .


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